Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Think Pink.

You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her. - Anonymous

It's a little early for Valentine's Day, but I am feeling very romantic today and when I feel romantic, I think pink.  The color pink represents love, fidelity, innocence and is distinctly feminine.  You can take almost any object and by painting it pink, transform it instantly into something soft, romantic and very appealing.  And so, pink is a perfect color for everything wedding - the ultimate romantic event.  A pink wedding dress definitely merits consideration. Although white and ivory wedding dresses follow the more traditional route, pink is a beautiful alternative.  Check out some of these beauties and fall in love...

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Let Them Eat Cake!


     Cakes have long been a tradition at weddings.  The tradition of wedding cakes began as far back as the Roman Empire.  Back then, traditionally, the groom would take a bite out of the wedding cake and then break the rest of the wedding cake over his bride’s head.  The “cake” was a loaf of barley bread baked especially for the occasion and the tradition was meant to symbolize the breaking of the bride’s virginal state and the subsequent dominance of the groom over her.  Yes, you read correctly!  Hello?... as you eat that cake, wake up and smell the coffee!  Kidding aside, as wedding cakes have evolved into their larger, more modern version, it became physically impractical to properly break the cake over the bride's head.  (Needless to say, the tradition may have also stopped as our society evolved into its more modern version.) 
     Today, wedding cakes still take on a very traditional role in the cake cutting ceremony.  The first piece of cake is cut by the bride with the help of the groom, symbolizing the first task that bride and groom perform jointly as husband and wife. After the cake is cut, the happy couple feed each other from the first slice. This symbolizes the mutual commitment of bride and groom to provide for one another.  Now, we’re talking.
     Wedding cakes are another canvas for creativity and expression.  Brides today have so many options for their cakes.  Different flavors, fillings, icing, decorations, shapes and sizes.  Some brides even opt for cupcakes or pies instead of a customary tiered wedding cake.  Wedding cakes have evolved into visual masterpieces and costly centerpieces of today’s modern weddings.  For that reason, you should consider your wedding venue when making your cake choices.  Whether you decide on a traditional cake or choose a unique alternative, here are a couple of things to consider if you are planning a farm or outdoor wedding.

     Mileage: Make sure you tell your baker where your wedding will take place and be aware of the road conditions on route to your venue.  Some bakers charge extra mileage fees if the location is further than their mileage allowance.  Also, if your venue is in a rural area, are the roads paved or are they bumpy dirt and gravel.  There is only one was to transport a wedding cake through a bumpy road…SLOWLY.  The baker should be aware of this so he can allocate enough time for himself to get there, set up the cake and leave in time to get to his next delivery.  Also, this could result in an extra charge for delivery which you want to be aware of before wedding day.
     Style of Cake and Frosting:  Outdoor weddings are home to the two main nemeses of wedding cake – heat and bugs.  Some cakes cannot withstand the heat or humidity.  Mousses are one example.  A mousse cake sitting for an extended time in some heat is a recipe for a collapsing wedding cake. .  Ganache frostings are not recommended at all for outdoor weddings.  They will melt as well.  A big potential problem for a buttercream frosted cake is that it may "sweat" as it sits in heat.  It is essential that your buttercream cake is in the shade.  Even in 60 degrees, direct sunlight will ruin a cake. If shade is not an option, a better choice would be a fondant cake.  Even though fondant is more expensive and not as tasty as buttercream, it is a sacrifice you may have to make in order to have your dream outdoor wedding.  Your buttercream frosted cake will not survive in direct sunlight unless it's 55 degrees or colder, and if that’s the case, I don’t think you will be having your wedding outdoors.  Also, you're basically guaranteed of having a sweating cake if the bakery delivers a frozen cake, which several places do.  Make sure your baker will not deliver you a frozen cake.  Also, make sure your cake is placed on a sturdy table on a flat sturdy surface. 
     A good idea would be to place your cake under a tent or pavilion for most of the night.   Make sure the area is easily accessible and visible to guests.  You may choose to have lighting to showcase the area so that your guests do not miss out on cake and not see how gorgeous it is because it is dark or because it's far from the center of activities.   Of course, the perfect conditions would be to display the cake indoors in a cool place.  A practical alternative would be to a "mock cake" made for display outdoors and the “real” cake stored indoors.  Basically you just have one bottom layer that the bride and groom can cut and the rest of the tiers are made out of cardboard or something but are iced and decorated to look like cake. When it's time to serve you just have a sheet cake in the back in the same flavors that is put on the plates. This is actually a huge budget saver as well.  Most cake is going to sit out for 5 hours or so before it is cut.  That is the typical time frame for most weddings.  Another alternative is to have your baker set up the wedding cake as close to the reception time as possible, preferably within an hour. 
     Now, let’s talk about bugs, which are another big factor.  Keeping your cake under a tent will minimize anything from falling or flying on it, including leaves.  You may consider putting up mosquito netting around some part of the cake or some part of the tent.  A small fan, concealed of course, set up to blow over the cake area will keep things from landing on it or getting too close.  Fondant is also a better option here than buttercream because it is less sticky.  Next, make sure that you have someone designated to watch the cake or check on it periodically for bugs, etc. You don't want something flying on the cake and sticking.  Also, an outdoor wedding bride will sometimes include family pets on her guest list.  Make sure someone is looking out for animals and pets.  You don't want a cat or a dog jumping up there and helping themselves to a snack!
     A good tip for combating ants is to put table legs in cups that are filled with water and to not let the table cloth touch the ground.  That way, ants cannot climb onto the table and onto the cake. 
     The bottom line is this – don’t be afraid, just plan correctly.  Make sure your baker is aware of what kind of wedding you are planning and where your venue is.  Make sure you choose a baker that is experienced in making wedding cakes for outdoor weddings.  Always discuss your concerns and ideas with your baker before you make your final decision.
     Outdoor weddings do come with considerations and may need some careful planning, but when done right, they are incomparable to anything 




Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Wedding Sparkle!

Today is the Fourth of July, our great nation’s birthday, and so it is a wonderful day for declaring my love of sparklers.  Who doesn't remember celebrating the fourth as a child, bright-eyed and happy, holding a sparkler in their hands, waving it back and forth with wonder and awe.  I remember it… the excitement of grabbing one and holding it in my hand, the uncontainable anticipation as my dad put the end of a flame to the top of the sparkler and then the most beautiful burst of sparkle and light and gold as the sparkler came to life!  I would jump up and down and run around leaving bright gold tracks in the air behind me.  I remember it well.  Today, I still enjoy lighting sparklers, now with my own bright-eyed and happy children, and my heart still bursts with anticipation as I wait for those first few sparks.

      Sparklers and all their charm are not only for the Fourth of July.  They are finding their way more and more into other types of celebrations.  With their scintillating show of gold sparks, sparklers are now being used to spice up the festivities at weddings across the country.  The glitz and dazzle of sparklers make them a welcomed new trend, especially in farm weddings where they make a nice contrast to the rustic nature of the venue.  
      At some weddings they are held by guests to form either a passageway or a sparkling tunnel for the happy couple to pass through or under.  They can also be used on cakes for a show-stopping effect.  Large ones, which burn several minutes, can be stuck into the ground to make a sparkling effect at a reception or to create a sparkling outdoor “aisle”. They can also be painted to match any color scheme.  
      Wedding photographers prefer large sparklers because they provide more valuable time to set up the perfect shot.  If the camera is set to a longer shutter time, you can swirl out words with the wedding sparklers such as the bride and groom’s names or the word “love.”
      Shorter sparklers make fun wedding favors to take home when they are grouped together and tied with ribbons in your wedding colors and include a matchbook personalized with the happy couple’s name. Ten-inch sparklers only last for about 45-seconds, so if you are using these for your get-away photos, make sure each guest has a small stock (4 or 5) on hand so they can relight a new one as the other is burning out.
      For our more cautious readers, sparklers, when used as intended, are extremely safe. Sparklers are classified as novelties by the federal government and are not defined as consumer fireworks, so they can be legally purchased and shipped through the U.S. mail system.  Most states allow the use of sparklers.  If in doubt over your local ordinance, it is always a good idea to check with your local or state authorities. Also, always test out your chosen sparkler a few weeks beforehand.  Try some different lighting methods and decide which one will work the best for your event.  If children will be present, decide how the sparklers will be handed out so that there will not be any possibility of unsupervised use of the items.
      With planning and proper precautions, sparklers will definitely add a spark of excitement to your celebration! 


Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Something Borrowed

I love farm weddings because they give you so much room for expression.  Your wedding venue is literally an open field for ideas, creativity and imagination.  You can go vintage, go glam or go full-blown hoedown!  
One idea I recommend is renting vintage china from companies like www.somethingvintagerentals.com and www.someborrowedvintage.com.  They provide mismatched antique plates, table settings, tea sets, and silverware for your special event.  The antique plates are absolutely fabulous and can go with a variety of decor.  They are beautiful and can serve as conversation pieces as well as their more practical use. Your wedding is the opportunity of a lifetime to exercise all of your creative muscles and make your dreams a reality.  So, ladies (and gents,) will you step up to the plate?  (Sorry, I couldn't resist.)





Friday, June 29, 2012

Hold the Manolos!

What bride doesn't dream of splurging on a pair of fabulously feminine and romantic Manolos or Louboutins for her wedding day?  There are many blushing brides who pick their shoes before even looking at dresses!  Like finding the perfect man, no lady can deny the exhilaration and endless barrage of  giddiness you feel when you land the "ones".  All that being said, a farm wedding can be an opportunity to think out of the (shoe) box.  

Save the Manolos for the honeymoon and show off your sass and confidence by choosing a funky pair of cowboy boots to wear under that glamorous and gorgeous dress.  You can try any style of boot.  Rubber boots can be particularly fun and unexpected, showing off your young and flirty style with their variety of printed designs. You can have a ball searching for that perfect pair and not only will you feel the exhilaration and giddiness when you do, you will feel confident and comfortable the day of your wedding...kind of like finding that perfect cowboy.  Ye-haw ladies!

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Thursday, June 28, 2012

Hey Everyone!...I'm Sharon, the owner of Farm Weddings Blog and I want to welcome all of you to my blog and inspiration board.  The purpose of this blog is to share with all of you my love of farm weddings and their rustic beauty and romance.  I am a wife and mother of four beautiful children.  I live and work in the city.  Six years ago my husband decided he wanted to buy a property in the country.  Being a city girl, I was hesitant at first but I went along for the ride (literally; a three and a half hour ride) and today we have a beautiful farmhouse on 125 acres in the country.  My initial hesitation slowly became interest.  That interest quickly became discovery.  That discovery lured me in and unfolded into love. The country is nature, peace, freedom, warmth, creativity and love.  My growing love affair of the countryside is becoming an intricate part of my life's journey.  Throughout this blog you will come to know more about me and my love affair.  As most true love affairs eventually lead to wedding bells, so has this one.  My discovery of the charm, romance and natural beauty of the country has led to my passion for country weddings and to this blog.  I hope that you are inspired by Farm Weddings Blog and that you experience the lure of the countryside and the magnificence of a country wedding as " I do!"